Your Monthly Update

Posted February 4, 2025

I realized that the last 15 years between caregiving for 2 people and trying to run my business, I was in Fight or Flight mode.

Your Monthly Update

I realized that the last 15 years between caregiving for 2 people and trying to run my business, I was in Fight or Flight mode. You ask, “What are you doing with all that free time Mistress”?

I have chatted with several of my regular subs and we defined their goals in their journey of kink.

– What are they expecting for 2025?

– What did they like in 2024?

– Are there any new things they would like to try?

– Is there anything they didn’t like?

– What do they need from me to be the best version of themselves?

In addition to that, I am using some of my free time for research on some of the fetishes and kink. I block 2 to 4 hours each week for research.

I have purchased 12 books to read. Some are about the psychology of kink and others just the kink. The one I am currently reading is Hurts So Good: learn more about this book here.

I have purchased 2 new commercial grade Inflatable Butt Plugs from Elementaltoys. Click on the highlighted link to check out their products, Elementaltoys

I am already planning a photoshoot with Charisma in either January or February.

Our Detroit sports teams are doing great, therefore the photos this month are to show my team spirit.

What You Get For Your Tribute

When you book a session, you are not just getting a session for your tribute.

When you are new, there are a few homework assignments that I give to a new sub to do. Once it is done, I send questions and we normally go back and forth in emails. For every session new or not, I do offer one free phone call to chat about the session if needed.

I plan the session having more than one plan in my head because one may not go the way I want because the sub in not in that headspace.

There is usually an hour of set up and an hour of clean up. I clean the bathroom, put a fresh hand towel, bath towels, make sure there is mouth wash, body wash, shampoo and scrub everything. Then there is doing the laundry.

I offer a follow up call after to discuss the session and get feedback. Some of these before or after phone calls are 15 minutes and some are 30 minutes.

For me this is important to build the trust we need in this relationship.

To schedule your first or repeat, be sure to Apply to Serve.

Poem from a Sub

The Sub that sent this did not write it but thought of me. He said, “This poem describes you perfectly in my eyes”.

Did they tell you about
How refreshing it is to be in the presence
Of your uniqueness?

If they didn’t then
They never saw the real you.

Did they take the time
To count and highlight
The countless blessings you bring?

If they didn’t then
They were too blind to see your value.

Did they take the time
To see your scars
Listen to your fears and
Fertilize your dreams?

If they didn’t then
They didn’t care about you.

Did they stop to observe how
The sun kisses your skin
And how it glows with excitement?

If they didn’t then
They never saw your true beauty.

You are a Goddess

To schedule your Role Play Request or regular session, Apply To Serve.

Phone Sessions & Fantasy Role Play

Fantasy Tribute

The tribute is my tribute, anyone who is participating and then a Fantasy tribute. Putting together a fantasy takes a lot of prep time.

I understand this is costly but please keep in mind it is a FANTASY. It will be safe, consensual and an experience you will not forget.

Phone sessions are $150.00 for 30 minutes.

If your schedule does not permit meeting in person, keep in mind you may schedule a phone session here.

A phone session can be what you want it to be:

– A role play

– Just to chat

– To discuss fetishes or kink things you wish to explore

– Some like to hear about other sessions that are similar to the ones they like.

– During phone sessions I cover topics that I won’t do in person (Ex: Diaper play)

Texting Packages
  • $2.00 per text message you send – my replies are free
  • $6.00 per picture message you send
  • $10.00 per video message you send
  • $6.00 per audio message you send
Gifts

To see my gift list on Amazon is click here.

If someone wishes to purchase something that is not on my Amazon list, I will give you my P.O. Box to have it shipped there.

Your Mistress,
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