A Wedgie Fetish?
Article is from “Men’s Health Magazine“
On Instagram, a man poses with his back to the camera, his briefs pulled way up over his head and hooked onto the corner of a mirrored headboard. His bare butt and thighs are shining with oil. In similar posts, men have their underwear tugged up by someone reaching into the frame; some even pull their own underwear way up over their heads, occasionally with the help of rope pulleys or hooks. These men have kinks and fetishes for wedgies, a surprisingly popular niche of the kink and BDSM community.
Benjamin Frederickson has been photographing wedgies since 2019. The settings of his pictures are varied: in bedrooms or bathrooms; in his dungeon-like basement studio; or outside, including a few in Central Park. Some have a BDSM vibe, featuring backgrounds of cinder blocks, ropes, and exposed piping, while others are reminiscent of vintage porno, with the models posing on fluffy white pillows or leanin g flirtatiously over furniture.
“Sometimes the desire to document a wedgie comes from wanting physical proof of how far you went,” explains Dustin James, a wedgie kink enthusiast who has posed for Frederickson, and also explores the kink with his husband and other partners. “Like, if you’ve managed to pull the underwear really high, it might look pretty extreme, and you might want to record that for later. Or it might come with playing with the risk of getting caught; of living with the thrill of being ‘out there’ while still wanting to maintain some anonymity. But for me, that part isn’t so important, it’s more the role playing aspects that I’m interested in. The theatrical and fantasy elements.”
So what’s the appeal of receiving a wedgie? How does it fit in with other fantasies or desires?
Often, the kink can be used to create role plays around high school themes, or other story-lines where there is a bully/bullied dynamic. These could be inspired by a movie, or perhaps as a way of reframing a humiliating or distressing personal experience. “You could have a role play where somebody is a bully, for instance, giving a wedgie,” James says. “Or I particularly like role plays that invert that, where the bully character is the one receiving the wedgie.”
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My Ramblings
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Thank you to all who sent me feedback regarding what they would like to see in the newsletters. I appreciate that and starting with this one I will make some changes.
I received more feedback than I ever thought I would. Which is fantastic because that means people are reading these newsletters.
The top 2 items people wish to see more of is articles about fetishes and testimonials or thoughts from subs.
Moving on since it will be Thanksgiving soon here in the United States.
I am thankful for all the loyal subs who book through out the year.
I am thankful to all of you trusting me your wildest fantasies and darkest secrets.
I am thankful for the friendships that have developed over time.
I am thankful for your care for me and your generosity.
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I could go on but surely that would bore you.
I have several subs that are battling health issues and I am here for you. This hurts my heart more than I can put into words.
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Testimonial
“I just have to tell you about the less than satisfactory session I had yesterday at a dungeon near me.
When I first arrived I was taken to the medical room. They thought I had come for medical, which I never suggested.
So, they moved me to a different room, which was not the room with equipment I specifically cited wanting to use. Yet, I figured this room will be okay, as long as the flogging would happen, which never did.
The spanking, anal and nipple play was ok, but that was all they ultimately offered in the session.
In precession communication I made it very clear I was expecting to be flogged like we did with you. They gave a generic response as if that was going to happen.
About 30 minutes into the session I became suspicious about why there had been no flogging or hint it was coming.
When they moved me from the X cross to the spanking bench I was very concerned, broke character to ask about the flogging (chest and back). Only then did one of the mistresses inform me they have a no flogging or whipping policy over potential injury concerns. That was upsetting!
I considered calling for an end to the session and leaving. Since I was already into the second hour, strapped to the bench, I decided to get the rest of my money’s worth in time, but definitely not what I had hoped for.”
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