Reflecting on 2024: My Evolving Journey and BDSM in Detroit

Posted December 22, 2024

Looking back on a year of personal transformation, new fetishes, and the vibrant scene of BDSM in Detroit.

2024 is Coming to an end

This past year has been a roller coaster for me.
Mom passed in April, between cleaning out her house, handling the estate and now figuring out new traditions. That has taken a toll on my emotions.

I’ve added many new items to the play space for your BDSM in Detroit pleasure.

I’ve had my own health challenges.

I was running through in the house, slipped, fell and on the way down hit my head on the fall. This resulted in my shattering an implant, cracking my jaw. Due to my high pain tolerance I did not have any real pain for about 2 weeks. I walked around like this for 5 weeks.

I just had the implant extracted, jaw fixed and infection is clearing with the assistance of antibiotics. A very long process and I have 2 more steps to getting this repaired.

I had 7 days off with no pay. The next week I worked a lot as I had to move sessions from the week of surgery to the next week.

Please do NOT say when I say I have no availability, “it must be nice”. That infuriates me. Would or could you take a week off of work with no pay?

Keep in mind the cost of the dental work (which is over $6,000.00) If I say I have no availability, be respectful.

I’ve embraced some new fetishes that my BDSM subs have brought to me.

I’ve done more fantasy play than in years past. 

First ever 2 T-Girls and a Sub. That was fun!

I’ve stayed consistent with the gym and feel that I am in the best health I’ve ever been. For me it is always a work in progress. I will continue to work to improve myself.

This newsletter I chose some of my favorite photos that Charisma took this year. I feel that there were many great photos. I am trying to line up my future photo shoots with Charisma. Let me know your thoughts by messaging me here.

Do you want to see more latex photos, do you like the everyday look? Let me know.

Competitive Board

One of my subs suggested a “Competitive Board.”

This would be a dry erase board naturally not using real names. 

Your Sub name would be on the “BDSM Super subs Detroit” board and how many swats or strikes with certain paddles or whips.

Naturally it would be catered to impact play. I am open to ideas so feel free to email me your ideas.

This idea came from a sub when I told him, no one else had ever taken 15 strikes with the Bee Whip. Maybe it is more of a Look At Me Board?

Gestures of Servitude - Christmas Gifts

A Christmas Gift is not necessary but appreciated. You can always find something on my wishlist.

I’ve had several people say, ” I want to get you something else other than what is on the list “. You can always sponsor something. In other words, CASH.

  • Nails – I go twice a month approximately $120.00
  • For my skin cancer and pre cancer cells I go every quarter for a laser treatment of the cells. That is $1500.00 plus a few days off.
  • I go for cupping, massages, chiropractic adjustments.
  • Hair appointment every 5 weeks approximately $120.00.

I know some of these things are expensive and if you say I only have $20.00, that is okay. I will combine it with others and put it towards something.

I have someone that buys me a case of water every now and then. It is not the cost, it is the thought.

Last but not least buying me a toy to use on you for the play space is a gift for you not for me.

To schedule your first session, repeat or wedgie session click here to Apply to Serve.

Thoughts from a BDSM Sub

Dear Mistress Kat,

Thank you for our time together. You are a beautiful person in so many ways! I left my session feeling very close with you and I have a lot of adoration and trust in you. I have some general feedback for you.

Funniest thing said by you: This is going to hurt me more than it’s gonna hurt you. (LOL)

Funniest thing said by me: I think cold feet would be the lease of my problems right now. (He said this because I asked if his feet were cold. LOL)

Another Testimonial

“For a long while I’ve been wanting to explore my kinky/submissive side. I’ve taken my first step on this journey just a few days ago with Domina Kat.

For our first session she was attentive to my requests and carefully guiding me throughout the session. I did not feel insecure at all.

I look forward to exploring this side of me further with Domina Kat.”

Read more on my Testimonial page.

Detroit DUos INfo & Stuff

Life changes for many that get into this industry.

A lady may get in the industry and get out in a matter of months, as she does not realize that in order to succeed it takes a lot of time, hard work, dedication, consistency and marketing. You must run this as a real business.

Sometimes there are people to duo with and other times none.

Currently I offer hybrid duo’s with Ginger. Keep in mind there is her tribute, my tribute and an added fee for arranging the fantasy session. She does not work weekends or evenings. Minimum 2 hours.

I offer duo’s with Skyler when she comes into town. Minimum of 2 hours as she lives 5 hours away. If there is a date and time you wish to schedule with her and I then please reach out and I will contact her.

Again, her rate, my rate and the fantasy fee.

Phone Sessions

If your schedule does not permit meeting in person, keep in mind you may schedule a phone session here.

Phone sessions are $150.00 for 30 minutes.

A phone session can be what you want it to be:

  • A role play
  • Just to chat
  • To discuss fetishes or kink things you wish to explore
  • Some like to hear about other sessions that are similar to the ones they like.
  • During phone sessions I cover topics that I won’t do in person (Ex: Diaper play)

Texting Packages

$2.00 per text message you send – my replies are free
$6.00 per picture message you send
$10.00 per video message you send
$6.00 per audio message you send

Gifts

See my gift list on Amazon.

If someone wishes to purchase something that is not on my Amazon list, I will give you my P.O. Box to have it shipped there.

Your Mistress,
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