The First Claim of the Year, The Power of Consensual Submission
January is the month of new beginnings-fresh rules, fresh rituals, and the first moment someone chooses to kneel, obey, or take control with intention.
Power exchange isn’t just about roles… it’s about permission. About a willing surrender that turn into something deeper, something hungrier.
This is the month where a Dominant doesn’t just give orders-they set the tone for the entire year. A look, a command, a deliberate pause that makes someone’s breath catch. The kind of authority that doesn’t need volume… just presence. The kind that lingers in the body long after the moment ends.
And for the one who offers themselves?
January becomes the moment they are claimed through choice. Not through force-through desire. Through the beautiful ache of wanting to belong to someone’s rules, someone’s hands. Through the thrill of saying, “I’m yours to guide,” and feeling that truth settle low and warm.
The first collaring of the year-whether physical or symbolic isn’t just jewelry or leather. It’s the quiet, electric agreement between two people who know exactly what they’re stepping into. It’s a promise of structure, hunger, discipline, and devotion. A vow to build something intimate one command at a time.
January is where the tone is set. Where power is established. Where someone gets taken in the only way that’s truly intoxicating-with their consent, their desire, and their full aching willingness.
Do You Have Goals?
2025 was good and I appreciate all of you that booked a session or booked more than one.
To those of you who live far, I appreciate the phone sessions.
To those of you who booked social engagements, I appreciate you as well.
There are a few subs that send a token of appreciation through Cashapp for coffee, nails or massage. So, very thoughtful. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate that.
Please take note of the following: If you buy shoes or boots, they must have a platform or I will be donating them. I cannot wear heels due to a health condition without a platform. If you want to purchase something but don’t know what, ask for ideas.
Coffee– Most think I drink a ton but I only drink 2 or 3 cups per day. If you purchase ground coffee, beans or k cups – medium roast. No more flavors. Please and thank you.
If you purchase body lotion – make sure it is clean and not full of chemicals. If you need brand names let me know. Or check out my wishlist here.
Due to a recent diagnosis in 2025 – I will continue to work out diligently and stay healthy. Clean eating and gym time is extremely important. I will be taking a few vacations this summer to visit family. Again, please plan accordingly.
Work goals will be to continue to work only with the best subs. One’s that book, send a deposit, respect and push no boundaries.
Are you one of those? Then apply to serve.
